East Fifth Avenue
It was almost 2 years ago when I posted this for the first time. It just felt right to go ahead and post it again to share it with any new readers or as a revisit for long time followers--you know, it's kinda like one of those obnoxious flashback TV shows that try to pass as a new episode but is really just airing old stuff (sidenote-the only show I never minded doing that was Golden Girls..man when those chicks pulled up a chair and broke out the cheesecake, you just KNEW a flashback episode was a comin')
Maybe it's the time of year that is forcing me to become overly sentimental. Right about now would be the time in my youth when we would start our more regular Wildwood visits. Loading up the ole '84 Chevy Caprice baby blue station wagon complete with our chocolate brown lab who used to drool insistently over the back seat until his saliva ran down my shoulders. I'd often snooze until we hit the old shanty town bridge that led us into the heart of North Wildwood. And it never failed, Grandmom would be on that small front porch waiting for us--often in her pale pink Isotoner slippers. Some of my most vivid memories of childhood center around their home. It never fails--to this day the sound of a sea gull flying overhead or the mellow scent of overly ripened bananas in a summer kitchen can whisk me right on back. But instead of continuing with this new post, let's go ahead and take the easy way out and do a flashback...originally posted in June 2007, here it is...Memories of East Fifth Avenue:
Everytime I hear a seagull, I am instantly whisked back to East 5th Avenue in North Wildwood, NJ where my grandparents used to live. East 5th Ave that was reached by way of the rickety bridge which ran through shanty town where the smell of marshland was so intense it could wake you from the deepest of drool on your cheek slumber.
Many
days were spent walking the few blocks from Grandmom and Grandpop's
small blue bungalow home to the North Wildwood beach where it seemed there was atleast 2
miles of sand to conquer before you could even reach the ocean. I can hear the ice
cream man shouting out his advertisements of "Creamsicles! Fudgy Wudgy
Bars! Ice Cream Sandwiches!" as he drags his wheeled freezer behind
him. My favorite, when I am actually allowed to get money from my Dad's
plastic blue coin holder, are the ice cream sandwiches that are
absolutely beyond words perfect as the vanilla starts to melt, the
chocolate sticks to your fingers and sand inevitably finds its way into
your treat adding just the right amount of crunch. As we head back to
the house, walking past the old hotels that have wet towels drying on the balconies, I can see
Grandmom waiting on the front porch for us. Her "stories" must not be
on yet since she wouldn't leave that black and red sectional couch when
they were--she only really tore herself away to use the bathroom and "don't forget to shut that door
when you're done because Grandpop doesn't like to see 'the throne' from
his recliner." On the side of the house is the hose with water
pressure so intense, it could take your foot off, but we must rinse the
sand off our feet before entering onto that insanely bold colored shag carpeting. I have to
walk back around the long way since walking with wet feet in the grass
would only get them dirty again. As I make my way back to the porch, I
always make note of my Aunt's hand prints cemented into the sidewalk
infront of the house unsure of whether to walk on them or hop over
them. Once inside, I can't figure out if it's hotter in there or
outside. Although as long as everyone
remembered to replace the rubberband on the door between the front room and the
bedroom hallway, the small window unit managed to keep the living room pretty cool. It's always a competition to see who can get into the
shower first and use up most of the hot water. But after I'm done, I
know Grandpop has homemade crockpot chicken soup waiting for me to eat
under the boiling bubble dome that is above the kitchen table. Hot
day, hot kitchen, hot soup but somehow I don't mind. I can't help but
bang my 1960's swivel chair against the table a few times, much to my
Grandpop's disapproval, as I glance around at the diamond patterns in
the carpet, the faux stained glass light above the blue kitchen
cabinets and the colorful beads that hang teasingly from the railing
(which were replaced, for a while, with beige and brown macrame that I
never liked). There is no old time mind numbing country music playing
on the small grey radio for this meal--that will come at dinnertime.
After lunch, I sneak off to raid the tall cylinder plastic containers
in the laundry room where the snacks were kept (the one marked "I" is
always better--it has the Hydrox cookies. The one marked "R" only has
no salt pretzel sticks or other low sodium snacks). Sometimes after lunch I join
Grandmom for some of her "story" time although at such a young age,
most of the content shoots over my head. I don't really care since I
just want to spend time with her (although I enjoy watching Golden
Girls with her much better). If I find TV unappealing, a ride on the
stationary bike hidden in the corner by the sunken rock and cactus
garden or fiddling with the "magical" plant light helps pass the time.
Or I might even go lay down in the bedroom with the curtain door, almost
never failing to pick up a pin with my toe along the way (somehow, it
is always my fault that the pin found its way into my foot. It is never
Grandmom's fault for dropping it in the first place). A nap after a
hot day on the beach with a stomach full of homemade chicken soup
always feels refreshing and slightly disorienting upon awakening.
There is nothing like salt air and sun induced sleep.
I do
remember some intense moments of boredom during those frequent summer
trips to Grandmom and Grandpop's house especially since they only ever
seemed to pick up ABC, Lawrence Welk and the Travel or Weather channels
on the TV. However the fond memories far outnumber the ones of
boredom. I have such cherished memories from time spent that small
blue bungalow on East 5th Avenue that sometimes it only takes something
as simple as an seagull's call to bring them all rushing back.
Comments
weeks. Visit with your parents and drive down the Wildwood :) We put
up some photos of some of your grandparent's motels.